The original of a person should remain as it is, Sayane had said, Be yourself. But isn’t it quite a difficult task?
Be yourself means that whatever you think, keep doing it, but what is going on in your mind, can you do even one percent of it in your lifetime?
I think it means that a person should find convenience for himself, do the work he likes, wear the clothes he likes, do the business that makes sense, that is, what matches his nature. Everything should be done.
We believe that the rich people have more choice than us, that is, they can reach the standard of ‘be yourself’ better than us, but if we look into their lives, it is so. is not
Suppose you are born in a wealthy family, live in Karachi, the whole family does business and in the middle you want to get a degree in film making, will that seth father allow you to enter this field? What is the Lifetime Glasses business? Those who have passed the age of daily buying and advancing wealth, then giving you all the comforts of life with the same money, why would they want you to make a bargain?
Now at this point, other types of sages will come, they will say that a person should learn from the experience of elders, they are always talking for your good, they will bring two or three sayings, but the question That is, despite all the money, where did your will go?
If you cannot make a decision that will determine the style of your whole life, then how will you be able to live according to your origin for the rest of your life? A man who had to make a movie, live in a world of super hit dialogues, will he continue to sell glasses after a wrong or right turn? How much will he be able to be himself in this shop? Well, he will earn money, he will probably struggle to create his own world, but will he be able to live according to his original?
Now suppose you get permission from home, study film making, go abroad, spend six years, get your highest degree and come back home to ‘serve your country’. Coming here, you looked at the market, looked for sponsors, considered the technical conditions, like doing three films and making two or three films, in which most of them were self-financed, and then ended up on the side of the poor.
After this failure, will you take more ‘be yourself’ type risks? Probably not, it will be difficult for you to run your life, then what will you do? Back to business, same dad? Well done, but where did Tarang go to stay true to his roots?
Similarly, there are children whose sexual inclinations are not like normal humans. I was watching a video yesterday in which a mother with a very melodious voice and a very happy face is singing a song and behind her is a three-four-year-old child wearing pink clothes who is dancing. is
His dance was something that boys at that age usually can’t do, there was flexibility, there was spontaneity and it was such that I immediately looked at the comments. The comments were exactly as I thought. Joke after joke after joke, only about the fact that the child will not grow up to behave according to his gender.
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In this world, can there be anything more cruel than that in the form you are born, your mind inside does not accept it? If such children agree to ‘be yourself’, they will be hated by the whole world and if they do not agree, it will be as if a woman will spend her life wearing a mask of a man’s face. What is the solution?
What is the solution to this biggest problem of the whole world, including you, to live a life of will?
Try to be as you are, but think that all the people around you in this world also have a right to their lives. They also want to be able to live according to their origin, but unknowingly, only because of you, there will be many lives that will be stuck in a routine for the rest of their lives.
You can be that businessman father in your life, you can be that film making kid, you can be that mom who sings songs on Insta and that kid can be you Kya Khabar, Kya Paat Maan Bhi you. Yes, but how much is on his own and how much we can facilitate him, the real task is to think.
And on social media, dude, have a very relaxed attitude, not in life, if someone wants to do their favorite thing on camera, let them do it, encourage them, or at least don’t do anything. One hate comment from you can detrack someone for life. But the point is to understand, otherwise everyone in your world will continue to walk around in the same way wearing a mask because of the fear of each other.
Note: This article is based on the personal opinion of the writer, Independent Urdu does not necessarily agree with it.
